AHSN

For families and caregivers

You know your loved one best

What you notice matters. Write it down, and share it with the care team.

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Six areas to watch

  • Walking and falls
  • Everyday tasks
  • Thinking and talking
  • Bladder and bathroom
  • Medicines
  • Shunt-related changes

Changes do not prove what is causing them. But new, worsening, or sudden changes are worth telling the care team about.

Write it down in four parts

  1. Usual. What is normal for this person?
  2. Change. What is different now?
  3. When. When did it start, and how often does it happen?
  4. Impact. How does it affect the day?
Example
Usual: Mom walks to the mailbox on her own every day. Change: She now takes short, shuffling steps and holds the railing. When: Started about three weeks ago; worse in the evening. Impact: She stopped going to the mailbox and nearly fell twice.

After a fall

Write down falls and near-falls the same day, and report every fall to the care team, even if no one was hurt. Call 911 if they hit their head, are hurt, cannot get up, or seem confused or very sleepy.

If they have a shunt

Ask the care team now which warning signs need 911, which need a call to the shunt team right away, and which can wait for a call soon. Keep that plan with an emergency information sheet.

Before appointments

Bring your notes and your top three concerns. Write your questions down ahead of time so they do not get lost in a short visit.

Caring for yourself matters too. Notice your own stress and ask for help. The Delaware Aging and Disability Resource Center offers caregiver support and respite.

Free app

AHSN Companion

Write down changes in daily life using Usual, Change, When, and Impact, keep your questions in one place, and bring a clear one-page summary to every appointment. It also has a who-to-call guide and an emergency information sheet. Your notes stay on your phone.

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Join the caregiver series

"Notice, Note, Speak Up" is six sessions for families and care partners. Tell us you are interested and we will contact you when sessions are scheduled.

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Our role. AHSN does not diagnose or treat. We observe, document, educate, communicate, and refer appropriately. Questions about a person's condition or treatment belong with their own care team.

Helpful resources

Delaware Aging and Disability Resource Center

Caregiver support, respite, and services. 1-800-223-9074 (24/7).

delawareadrc.com

Hydrocephalus Association

Information, support, and a helpline. 888-598-3789 (weekdays 9 to 5 ET).

hydroassoc.org

In an emergency, call 911. For emotional crisis support, call or text 988.